The Gospel of Our Lord Jesus Christ According to Luke.
On one occasion when Jesus was going to the house of a leader of the Pharisees to eat a meal on the Sabbath, they were watching him closely.
When he noticed how the guests chose the places of honor, he told them a parable. “When you are invited by someone to a wedding banquet, do not sit down at the place of honor, in case someone more distinguished than you has been invited by your host; and the host who invited both of you may come and say to you, `Give this person your place,’ and then in disgrace you would start to take the lowest place. But when you are invited, go and sit down at the lowest place, so that when your host comes, he may say to you, `Friend, move up higher’; then you will be honored in the presence of all who sit at the table with you. For all who exalt themselves will be humbled, and those who humble themselves will be exalted.”
He said also to the one who had invited him, “When you give a luncheon or a dinner, do not invite your friends or your brothers or your relatives or rich neighbors, in case they may invite you in return, and you would be repaid. But when you give a banquet, invite the poor, the crippled, the lame, and the blind. And you will be blessed, because they cannot repay you, for you will be repaid at the resurrection of the righteous.” (Luke 14:1, 7-14)
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Jesus tells his listeners not to exalt themselves, or they may be embarrassed, and he gives as an example a guest at a dinner who takes a seat reserved for someone higher in rank that he is, and then is asked to move to a lower seat to the amusement of the other guests.
He also warns against sending out self-serving invites to dinner – to friends and family, and to richer persons, rather than providing food for these who have none.
The reward in heaven will be much greater for the person who helps those without , than the paltry reward that comes from entertaining only those who can benefit you.
Basically he is saying in that first segment that pride goes before a fall.
And the Old Testament has many examples of that truism.
The people of Israel were delivered out of slavery by Moses, led by God.
They had leadership, a God who guided them, and who gave them the law. Most nations had kings who decided the law themselves. Their law was given by God.
During their sojourn in the desert, they conquered armies mightier than they were, because of their cohesion, their faith, their determination as a nation and being led into battle by the Arc of the Covenant.
Later when they crossed the Jordan into the land promised to them by God, the tribes each were allotted land of their own.
They fought off invaders, prospered as farmers and herders, and artisans and worked hard to make a country and a nation for themselves.
For themselves.
Unfortunately, as time went by they began to feel they had done it by themselves, and some indulged in practices that were frankly wrong.
Their kings introduced idol worship, and any idea that what they had accomplished, had been with the aid of their God, was forgotten.
So when the Assyrians attacked, they couldn’t stand against them.
They had lost the defining force that had helped them do amazing things in the past – faith in their God!
If you read the warnings of the early prophets, you will see that they say that God stirred up those who would attack them. That God chose their attackers to punish them.
I think it was their false pride, resulting in a lack of national cohesion – the tribes in the northern and southern kingdom which had once been unified under David and Solomon warred against each other – the false pride, the idea that they had achieved everything alone, that denied Gods’ presence in their lives, that was their downfall.
So is pride necessarily a bad thing?
Aren’t we allowed some quiet pride in what we have a achieved in our lives?
You may be rightfully proud of how you built your own home, or how you went back to school while managing a home and two children.
Some people are born to parents who encourage them, help them along, can afford to send them to the best schools enroll them in sport or hobbies, and they do well. The start they get helps them do better than they otherwise would do, but they still had to work hard for what they achieved, and could be proud of that.
On the other hand, some people are born into families that aren’t so supportive, or where one parent leaves, and they have to struggle daily; families that aren’t supportive, families that are abusive, and still that child grows up and is successful nevertheless.
But you know, even those who grew out of struggling families, may have been spotted by a school teacher, or Sunday School teacher and been encouraged, by them.
Some of those who didn’t have family resources, were gifted with brains, or a spirit of enterprise, or gained strength through their struggle.
Some people would tell you they were just lucky, were in the right place at the right time,.
And so on.
Many of us have been gifted with assistance from others – brothers, sister, cousins, aunts uncles, grandparents.
Is the pride that such people have in their achievements wrong?
If you were born in this great and beautiful country, or were fortunate to be able to settle here, then you were gifted.
Just the fact that your mother happened to be in a developed and settled country when you were born was a fabulous gift in itself.
Even Mr. Trump who took great pride in his achievement in becoming a billionaire, acknowledges that he did it with a small loan of a million dollars from his father.
So what’s wrong with a little pride?
Nothing.
What’s wrong, I believe is false pride. In believing that you did it all by yourself.
That you don’t acknowledge all the help you may have received.
That you don’t acknowledge the friends who gave you a hand up when you were struggling.
That you don’t acknowledge the gifts that God sent you here with.
And still gifts you with.
Count them.
You will be surprised with how well you were equipped to come into this world.
And when you do that, then humility replaces pride.
The greatest gift of all, of course, was given at our baptism. The chance to start anew.
If we have messed up our life, by ourselves, or have been helped by others into messing it up, there is a place that we can take that.
If we have regrets, past mistakes, sins, things we are ashamed of when we even think about them, there is a place we can take them.
If we have problems that seem insurmountable, there is a place we can take them.
That place is the foot of the cross.
Pile them up there.
Stack them up, and leave them there.
The hardest part, of course, is leaving them there.
Being free of them.
But what happened on that cross was precisely for that reason.
We all need to be able to start again. To be free.
When it happens, some call it ” being saved. “
In a way it is, isn’t it? We are saved from all the worry and self denigration, and false pride, and destructive thoughts.
Yes, “being saved,” fits, doesn’t it?
Just as we should remember where the good in our lives came from, it’s important to remember to where we can ship the bad.
Come to the foot of the cross. Bring your pain and your guilt and your sorrow, and leave it with Christ.
That’s why he died there.
That’s why he suffered there.
So we don’t have to.
Believe it: We don’t have to!!
So why do we persist in hanging onto all that stuff – tormenting ourselves with it?
I don’t know.
I am not good with that either.
But you can always go back to that cross.
You can always start again.
And accept his love and forgiveness, and thank him for what he has done for you.
It’s easy in the hustle and bustle of life to forget what God did for us in Jesus Christ. It’s easy to blame ourselves when life goes wrong. It’s easy to boast how great we are when things go right.
But He put you in this world for a purpose.
He brought you here to live a life of love and forgiveness – forgiveness of others and of yourself,. A life that blossoms with promise.
A life of fulfillment.
I was visiting a man who was dying. I asked him if he wished to have me pray with him – if there were anything he wished to ask forgiveness for.
He said, ” Oh there’s lots, but it’s too late to change now. I will take my chances.”
I prayed with him anyway, but he wouldn’t change his mind.
I guess he thought that he had missed the boat.
Left it too late!
But!
It is never too late!
It is never too late.
To start again.
Amen